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dicklaxt
01-23-2003, 08:50 AM
The fifties,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,


Hey Dad," My Son asked the other day, "what was your favorite fast
food when you were growing up?"

"We didn't have fast food when I was growing up."

"C'mon, seriously. Where did you eat?" "We ate at home," I explained.

"My Mom cooked every day and when Dad got home from work, we all sat
down together at the table, and if I didn't like what she put on my
plate I had to sit there until I did like it."

By this time, my Son was laughing so hard I was afraid He was going to
suffer some serious internal damage, so I didn't tell him the part
about how I had to get my Father's permission to leave the table.

Here are some other things I would have told him about my childhood if
I had figured his system could handle it.

My parents never wore Levi's, set foot on a golf course, traveled out
of the country, flew in a plane or had a credit card.

In their later years they had something called a "revolving charge
card" but they never actually used it. It was only good at
Sears-Roebuck. Or maybe it was Sears and Roebuck. Either way, there is
no Roebuck anymore.

My parents never drove me to soccer practice. This was because soccer
back then was just for the girls.

We actually did walk to school. By the time you were in the 6th grade
it was not cool to ride the bus unless you lived more than 4 or 5
miles from the school, even when it was raining or there was ice or
snow on the ground.

Outdoor sports consisted of stickball, snowball fights, building
forts, making snowmen and sliding down hills on a piece of cardboard.
No skate boards, roller blades or trail bikes.

We didn't have a television in our house until I was 12. It was, of
course, black and white, but you could buy a piece of special colored
plastic to cover the screen. The top third was blue, like the sky, and
the bottom third was green, like grass. The middle third was red. It
was perfect for programs that had scenes of fire trucks riding across
someone's lawn on a sunny day.

I was 13 before I tasted my first pizza. It was a Sam's Pizza at the
East end of Fruit Street in Milford. My friend, Steve took me there to
try what he called "pizza pie." When I bit into it, I burned the roof
of my mouth and the cheese slid off, swung down and plastered itself
against my chin. It's still the best pizza I ever had.

Pizzas were not delivered to your house back then, but the milk was. I
looked forward to winter because the cream in the milk was on top of
the bottle and it would freeze and push the cap off. Of course us
kids would get up first to get the milk and eat the frozen cream
before our mother could catch us.

I never had a telephone in my room. Actually the only phone in the
house was in the hallway and it was on a party line. Before you could
make a call, you had to listen in to make sure someone else wasn't
already using the line. If the line was not in use an Operator would
come on and ask "number please" and you would give her the number you
wanted to call.

There was no such thing as a computer or a hand held calculator. We
were required to memorize the "times tables." Believe it or not, we
were tested each week on our ability to perform mathematics with
nothing but a pencil and paper. We took a spelling test every day.
There was no such thing as a "social promotion." If you flunked a
class, you repeated that grade the following year. Nobody was
concerned about your "self esteem." We had to actually do something
praiseworthy before we were praised. We learned that you had to earn
respect.

All newspapers were delivered by boys and most all boys delivered
newspapers. I delivered the "Milford Daily News" six days a week. It
cost 7 cents a paper, of which I got to keep 2 cents. On Saturday, I
had to collect the 42 cents from my customers. My favorite customers
were the ones who gave me 50 cents and told me to keep the change. My
least favorite customers were the ones who seemed to never be home on
collection day.

Movie stars kissed with their mouths shut on screen. Touching someone
else's tongue with yours was called French kissing and they just
didn't do that in the movies back then. I had no idea what they did in
French movies. French movies were considered dirty and we weren't
allowed to see them.

You never saw the Lone Ranger, Roy Rogers or anyone else actually kill
someone. The heroes back then would just shoot the gun out of the bad
guy's hand. There was no blood and violence.

When you were sick, the Doctor actually came to your house. No, I am
not making this up.

Drugs were something you purchased at a pharmacy in order to cure an
illness.

If we dared to "sass" our parents, or any other grownup, we
immediately found out what soap tasted like. For more serious
infractions, we learned about something called a "this hurts me more
than it hurts you." I never did quite understand that one?

In those days, parents were expected to discipline Their kids. There
was no interference from the government. "Social Services" or "Family
Services" had not been invented (The ninth and tenth amendments to the
constitution were still observed in those days.)

I must be getting old because I find myself reflecting back more and
more and thinking I liked it a lot better back then.

If you grew up in a generation before there was fast food, you may
want to share some of these memories with your kids or grandchildren.
Just don't blame me if they wet themselves laughing. Growing up today
sure isn't what it used to be in my day.





...............

saturnme
01-23-2003, 10:31 AM
A few more:

No cell phones . . .

Kids had HOMEWORK !!

School papers were HANDWRITTEN with a pen !!!

Kids usually did not have a car.

Kids had chores.

Boys learned a trade earlier in life.

My life is taking a new turn...

Billy B
01-23-2003, 11:31 AM
Boys knew how to mix concrete by hand because their fathers did it and taught them how to do it right.

Both parents attended little league games...and sat together.

Clothes were never thrown out, they were mended.

Tommy Hilfiger and Ralph Lauren were just a couple of little fellas playing with the girls at recess.

People knew their neighbors on all sides.

Folks went to church every Sunday as a family.

There were stories played on the radio.

Kids could still play cops and robbers, cowboys and indians (the indians won too when we played).

Boys defended themselves using only their fists.

The word terrorism did not exist.

Kids had respect for their elders.

I know all this and I am only 34...sigh.

Billy B.

saturnme
01-23-2003, 12:57 PM
Did television cause much of the changes from what
it used to be?

My life is taking a new turn...

carl civi
01-23-2003, 03:40 PM
You didn`t have to go anywhere to be amongst people,everybody sat out on the front porch on summer evening and talked,while kids chased fire flies.And when dark came,you sorta stayed close to the porch.This is before there was nothing but farms in what is now called the suburbs. HAPPY TIMES, huh! Carl. Oh yeah and when dad would take all the kids he could fit in is 49 ford for ice cream and it would only cost a buck.

TWS
01-23-2003, 04:59 PM
I'm not sure if it is TV or so much TV. We all watched TV back then but it wasn't the only thing we did (all monitors, computers/video games). We actually played outside in the evenings, played cards with the folks when the weather was bad. Had board games and darts.

I am trying to formulate a theory that the problems in our country began with wide-spread birth control. Before this convenience, families just grew and everyone pretty much knew their place. Once it was more of a choice TO have kids, they became more of a commodity or prize to be pampered. (there are still a few bugs here, but I'll keep working on it).

The other event that has helped to destroy our old ethic is the Eisenhower freeway system. I love being able to travel (relatively) quickly over long distances, but this opened up farmlands to be subdivided into the 'suburbs'. If we weren't able to get to our jobs via the highway system, maybe more people would be willing to stay in the cities and learn to live with their neighbors, rather than flee.

Tom

merickson
01-23-2003, 07:23 PM
Manual typewriters. (I still use mine)

Gas stations where they checked your oil and tires while your tank was filled and you didn't leave the car.

Public restrooms without graffiti


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Randall
01-23-2003, 09:40 PM
>The fifties,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

>Pizzas were not delivered to your house back then, but the
>milk was.

I'm JUST old enough to remember when doctors made house calls with their little black bag at any hour of the day or night, and I JUST remember the glass milk bottles being delivered and then no longer.
Back then too my folks had a live-in nanny/housekeeper, a real honest to goodness one like you see on TV in English estates, our nanny was a German girl and she did the cooking, cleaning and kid sitting, she was gone back to Germany when we sold the house when I was 5 but I remember her and going for walks.


>make a call, you had to listen in to make sure someone else
>wasn't
>already using the line. If the line was not in use an
>Operator would
>come on and ask "number please" and you would give her the
>number you wanted to call.

Wow, I think you kind of dated yourself with that information ;)
I can remember visiting a family member in a little New England town and using an ordinary non pay phone outside the store to call her and having to dial only 4 digits to do so and both the non pay phone and the 4 digits were a novelty to me circa 1973


>There was no such thing as a computer or a hand held
>calculator.

My first calculator was a Texas instruments, ran like $60 circa 1972

We
>were required to memorize the "times tables."


Oh I HATE THOSE I HATE THOSE I HATE THOSE :)

>There was no such thing as a "social promotion." If you
>flunked a
>class, you repeated that grade the following year. Nobody

Yep, been th ere bought the tee shirt :)

>All newspapers were delivered by boys and most all boys
>delivered
>newspapers. I delivered the "Milford Daily News" six days a
>week. It
>cost 7 cents a paper, of which I got to keep 2 cents. On
>Saturday, I
>had to collect the 42 cents from my customers. My favorite
>customers
>were the ones who gave me 50 cents and told me to keep the
>change.

The Daytona Beach News Journal was my route :) but I got a stiff or two and cut them off for non payment till they whined and WHINED some more to the home office and had to PAY up before I would deliver em again.


>You never saw the Lone Ranger, Roy Rogers or anyone else
>actually kill
>someone. The heroes back then would just shoot the gun out
>of the bad
>guy's hand. There was no blood and violence.


Yer right! and they settled fights like men, but now i t's just blow the sucker away, while he's turned with his back to you is even better and safer for today's cowards.

>When you were sick, the Doctor actually came to your house.
>No, I am
>not making this up.

He even brought MEDICINE too so you didn't have to get out of your deathbed and go drive to the pharmacy.


>
>If we dared to "sass" our parents, or any other grownup, we
>immediately found out what soap tasted like. For more
>serious
>infractions, we learned about something called a "this hurts
>me more
>than it hurts you." I never did quite understand that one?


"Cut me a switch 'bout the size of my thumb"

It hurts less if you stick a book in your pants first, then it really will hurt the spanker more than you LOL :)
Today however your boy would call the police and his lawyer and file a domestic assault charge on ya.


>In those days, parents were expected to discipline Their
>kids.
\

Now they'd be arrested for "child abuse"